Great Job on applying NC thru the important time in your life. We all know how difficult it can be especially when it involves an innocent child. Addie will naturally miss you… you were a part of her life. It’s a shame your ex is using the child to check up on you.
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| My ex said; that she couldn't make anymore stories anymore and that Addie(ex little girl) felt abandonment by me. I don't know what to do? |
I could blow up this thread about what your ex should and shouldn’t be doing to her child but it’s pointless. It wont’ help and heal YOU! If you want my opinion, you should continue to hold NC. You answer that phone at it will hinder your healing process. Applying NC right now is not to hurt anyone... not your ex and of course not Addie. This is to HEAL YOU!! Take this time to focus on yourself to become a better person. That's what it's about and not anything else.