I don't think you should be trying to "fall out of love with her" but you should focus more on yourself and your own happiness. It really does work. I've tried NC for over a month....I cut my ex out of my life, focused on ME and now he's come back saying he wished we never fell out in the first place. Even if nothing happens between me and my ex, I now feel a lot better about myself.
I don't think it will be as easy for you to do NC while living with someone but you CAN make more time for yourself. She might just need a bit of space and time away at the moment....I don't know but if you sort things out in your own head, and come accross as a happy person then she's more likely to want to spend time with you again. Do you want to have her back? |