hey pkc!
i am sorry that it's so hard for you. i, too, moved out of my ex's house so he can figure out what's going on with his feelings.
it's only been 3 weeks and it was really hard for me to think this is for the best at first. actually, i only really started believing that a few days ago. i want to be with him and i really believe we can work this out, but i truely believe now that this is for the best. i don't want to be with someone who isn't 1000% sure about what he wants in life. also, i want him to have the space and time he needs to sort through all of this, which i why i started no contact 12 days ago.
bottom line, his decision has nothing to do with me. he needs to work on himself before he can really be the best he can be in a relationship, which is probably the case with your ex.
i wish you so much luck. i posted something a few days ago that i read every day since i found it. i posted it under "because it's just THATgood" i suggest you read it.
please use these forums--they have helped me so much in these last few weeks. be strong! and keep me updated :). |