[bustertypsy]

NC NC NC! It may **** her off,but it's not about her,it's about you.You are not doing NC to win her back,you are doing it to move on.
I know from your posts that you love her.She knows you love her too.That's why she thinks she has you in the palm of her hand.You have two choices.You can be strong and move forward and ignore her possessivness or you can let her control you,and be that proverbial puppet on a string.If you try to justify her actions,you are ignoring your true beliefs and allowing her to call the shots.

I think you are in denial by trying to justify why NC is not the way to go.I think it is the wrong approach.If you keep letting her tag you along you will learn that she is using you until she is strong enough to move on eventually.
I'm sorry if I appear frank,but I must say it the way I see it!