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| yeah, i see both points. She is very confusing. Today we spoke on the phone for around a total of 5 hours. She in the beginning said she again just loves me as a friend blah blah blah, but then comes around and says stuff like im looking forward to seeing you when your home and I'm afraid i wont be able to restrain myself from kissing you. WOW? for the rest of the time we spoke about how we wish we could go back in time and change things and talking about how things could have been better and happened ect. we had alot of laughs and she says it reminded her of good times. I'm not sure if she loves and and is just confused or stringing me along. She also claims to never want to lose me and if she ever gets another boyfriend he has to deal with us being close or she will leave him. How can that work? if my girlfriend was hanging around with an ex she was with for a while and was intimate with i sure wouldnt like it ya kno? its just human nature in that way. This was been a very confusing month. When i go home and see her (she openly wants to see me and is excited) ill see what happens and how she acts. Hopefully it goes well if not ill let go i guess.. our last chance :( |
Hello everyone! I'm new to these forums, and I wanted to say hi AND to say Cityboy that you are being jerked around. You need to NC the hell out of her. If it pisses her off, so what! She dumped you, remember? And if it really does **** her off it could mean two things:
1. She is mad because she can't control you.
2. She is upset because she still likes you and wants you back.
If she wants you back, she needs to stop dicking with you, apologize, then allow YOU to make the call if you want to be back with her. She has work to do to gain your trust. Don't be her boy toy, it can be hard, but you have to be firm, and not allow yourself to be used.
Good luck,
-Frank-