divenie,
Hey there. I read your story and oh man what a doozie. Has your boyfriend thought of going to counseling? I would have to say this is way out of my league and the only thing I can suggest is professional help.
I certainly would NOT want to question the motivation of your boyfriend but be aware of the situtation. I am not a professional but I can say as a friend of yours to seek out someone who knows what to do.
Take care and I hope things get better for you.
-SuperDave71
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