Hey everyone...it's conforting to know that other people are going through exact same thing. My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago and my heart is hurting soo bad. First we took a break..and had some contact which was confusing..and then he decided he wanted to break up. I would say 99% of our relationship was amazing. The other 1% i would pull some moody fits. We dated for 6 months and were getting past the honeymoon phase and starting to get to know eachother even more. Anywayzz,,the point is i have hope that we will get back together. I want to believe he needs his space, go out with his friends and figure out if he really wants to be with me and try to compromise our different characters. He is 33 and I am 26. He has a hard time expressing what he feels which complicates our communication...I am the opposite..I put everyone on the table. He knows he has this problem and I told him that I accepted that and was completely willing to work with him to make things better. Not to change him, but just help him be a little more expressive.
I want to tell everyone to have hope. I am trying to be very strong here. I think when people break up , they owe it to themselves to focus and analyze things from a different point of view. And this way you see things you didnt see when you were together. If you get back together , then you will be more aware and on the road to an even better relationship that will make both of even happier. |