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- I'm soooo....depressed rite now........sooo hurt...I beg for God to surround me tonite..and for da rest of my life....

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I'm soooo....depressed rite now........sooo hurt...I beg for God to surround me tonite..and for da rest of my life.
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I'm so sorry you're in such pain. This is an unbelieveable torture. There have been times where it feels like I'm being torn apart from the inside out. I totally understand. You don't have to ask God to surround you because He is always there. This is what I do when I feel overwhelmed. I ask God to please carry the weight of the pain so I can rest. Visualize that you are putting all your pain and feelings in a box and handing it to God. Try to quiet your mind and concentrate on whats positive right now. The pain may be blocking your view on whats good in your life. Meditate and go somewhere that makes you feel peaceful. It could be the beach, a park, someplace that once made you feel good. Read the book "when everything changes, change everything" by neale donald walsch. Do all you can to pamper yourself. If someone you really loved was hurting, you would do all you can to help them. Who is always there for you? who knows exactly what you are going through? Who is always your constant companion? YOU, thats who! Cherish and baby yourself, especially now that you have a major boo-boo.
Is it easy? No way! I'm learning many ways of helping me. Don't hold onto anger, it just poisons you. Guilt is a useless emotion that doesn't solve a thing. We, I am here for you, sending you a big hug and saying that this too shall pass. You will heal, you will smile, you will be happy, and someday you will love again, I promise. Thank God for how resilient the heart is. Hang in there keep writting. Take some of this sugestions or create your own. Do all you can to fight for your best friend, YOU! peace and blessings
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i'm so sorry you're feeling so bad! ruby has given you some good advice/food for thought, but i wanted to show my support and encouragement. this is a tough time and we're all here for you.

remember: the bad times pass just like the good ones do.
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I too wanted to add my encouragement and support, break-ups can be one of the hardest things to go thru, I agree with Suzie, Ruby gave you some great advice...

Remeber you are not alone we really are here for you... Sending to hugs and support...
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I hope your days are easier and the pain less....some days are easy, and some are not at all but remember....this too shall pass. You are never alone!

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