School Advice

[bewanchuk]

Ironically for once I am posting about needing some helpful advice for something which I am hopefully (and I mean hopefully) attempting to do in the near future. Being as I have been far far away from being in any sort of relationship, I want to challenge myself to try talk to this girl in my university class and hopefully try to get to know her better. I honestly don't even know how to do it being as I only see her while in class, and each time she is always is with a friend of hers from what I can see. The worst things as well is have only talked to her a couple of times just about the class itself. I'm really curious on how I should go about talking to her, and maybe hopefully over time ask her out to a coffee before the semester wears down. More than anything I've been far far far away from relationships, and by no means am I really looking for anything serious. I still need time for myself, but I'd like to go out of my comfort zone for a bit and maybe take a risk in talking to her. I don't know of a good way to go about it being as the only contact is just minutes before class, but regardless I am very open to opinions being as I definately would love to take on this challenge and start leaving my comfort zone haha


Definately looking forward to any opinions/thoghts on how I could do this as I am very polite but as always a shy shy shy, lol and evenmorso now.

Thanks again,

Braden

[thatdoggirl]

I'm shy too so I know in those situations it seems impossible but then sometimes you gotta step out there. There are tons of options. Make conversation and ask for her number and if you can call or text or you can straight up ask her out too. Other lesser and easier approaches would be asking if she has facebook or whatever or writing a note (even though the note thing is a little bit middle school). Lol. That's what I can think of. If it was me I'd challenge myself to push past the shyness and ask if she'd like to go out sometime... Or atleast the phone number incase you want to chit chat with her a little first and don't want to ask her out in front of her friend.