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1. Mental Stability
I'm tired of men so confused that they don't know what they want. I need someone with perspective and the ability to deal with life, and who will allow me to support them through the rough parts and who is willing to do the same for me. I can't be someone's "savior" anymore. I'm too tired.
2. Communication Skills
I especially would like someone who knows how to really "listen" rather than bulldoze right over me or just sit there waiting for it to be his turn to talk again. Like Sphynx, I need conversation with some depth to it - or even just some good-natured wit. As an English major, it's important for me to be with someone articulate.
3. Sense of Humor
I don't want to be the only one cracking stupid jokes. Enough said!
4. Honesty
I don't trust people easily - I need to be able to trust my partner.
5. Personality
I trust the judgment of my friends and family, and it's important to me what they think about someone I'm seriously involved with.
6. Sex
Sex is still extremely important to me - I have an extremely high sex drive and enjoy being affectionate and snuggly. However, I can't get to this point with someone until I know the previous 5 traits are in the bag!
7. Looks
Looks are important to everyone, but I don't always seem to go for the conventionally good-looking types. The more time I spend with someone and the more I like the other 6traits, the more attractive I'm going to find them.
8. Money
As long as he can provide for himself, it's fine. I insist on being able to support myself - I don't like it when people spend a lot of money on me. It's not necessary.
9. Religion
I'm not a religious person - I didn't grow up with any religious affiliation, and I'm completely comfortable with that. I'll never be interested in a Bible-thumper, but I'll respect a partner's religious beliefs. I will not, however, convert for anyone, because, oddly enough, I'm okay with saying, "I don't know if this exists; I'll never know; there's no possible way for me to know; and I'm okay with that."
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