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Do you have any rooms that are off limits for bringing in food?
If you didn't like your mate's clothing or hairstyle, would you tell him or her?
Would you want your partner to tell you?
What first attracted you to me?
How has that one attraction changed since then?
If you went bald, would you consider wearing a toupee or getting hair plugs?
Would you want your spouse to talk with you first before they dramatically changed their hairstyle or facial hair?
If your partner asked you to shave or not to shave (face, underarms, legs, pubic area) would you do it?
What is your preference for shaving those areas?
If you had problems with my personal hygiene, would you be able to tell me?
What physical or personality trait do you think makes people first attracted to you?
Do stylish clothes, nice hair, expensive jewelry or "things" make you feel better about yourself?
Do you think you tend to attract a certain type of person?
Do you feel like you need to dress sexy? Why or why not?
Do you feel that people who dress sexy are sending the message that they are interested in sex?
How do you feel about permanent tattoos?
Why do you think most people get them?
If you suddenly became blind, how would your idea of the perfect mate change?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
If so, what about the millions of cases when love at first site ended in disaster?
Do you really like the way I dress?
What changes could I make that would please you?
Which do you think you would rather have: a gorgeous mate who wasn't very interested in sex or very good in bed or a very ordinary looking spouse that was awesome in the sack?
If you could be any height and build you desire, what would it be?
Should your sweetheart love you just the way you are, or would you be willing to make some changes (the way you dress, shaving, new hairstyle, etc) to become more attractive to him or her?
In what ways are you smart?
How would you feel if your mate wanted to wear matching outfits or dress like you?
What do you find attractive about my physical features? Is there a favorite?
If you were single and wanted to write a personal ad describing your qualities, how would it read?
Do you fear looking older?
How do you feel about women wearing makeup? What do you think is ideal?
What is your opinion on women spending money to get their nails done?
Do you have a preference on how you like women's nails?
What do you perceive to be your physical flaws?
Are you currently comfortable with your body? If not, what would you change to make you comfortable?
How would you feel if I had breast implants?
If you could change one thing about your body, what would it be?
What outfit of mine is your favorite? Why is it?
Do you think that dressing is something you do out of necessity or do you enjoy putting outfits together?
If your aunt left you a large sum of money in her will for you to have any sort of plastic surgery you desired would you have anything done?
If you could live one year of your life all over again without changing a thing, what year would you choose? Why?
Do you prefer receiving expensive gifts or ones that come from the heart?
Do you know most of your neighbors?
Do you ever socialize with any of them?
Have you ever lived alone? Do you or did you enjoy it?
Someone once said "A women who does not feel loved needs jewelry, gold and dazzling gifts to be happy. A woman who truly feels loved finds those gifts to be superfluous (nice, but not necessary)". Do you agree?
Prior to this year, what is the best gift you've ever received?
Why was it so special?
How do feel about your mate reading your private email?
Are you camera shy? Why?
Do you feel that you need to be occasionally held or emotionally supported by someone who is strong? Why or why not?
Do you generally make to do lists?
Would you like it or be offended if your mate helped you make a to do list? Do you feel like you waste a lot of time?
Do you wish you didn't?
Do you feel that your partner wastes a lot of time?
Does that bother you?
Do you tend to be punctual or are you usually late?
What are some things that you consider a waste of time?
What do you like most about my personality?
Do you have a favorite type (or a couple) of music?
A favorite singer?
Or musical group?
What is your favorite fast food restaurant?
How often do you eat there?
What's your favorite restaurant for casual dining?
Favorite special occasion restaurant?
Do you remember what your favorite childhood books were?
Do you have a favorite movie? Actor? Actress? Comedy? Drama?
What's your favorite alcoholic beverage?
What meal would you eat most often if you could?
Do you have a favorite "fancy" meal?
What is your favorite snack food?
What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
Do you have a favorite and least favorite day of the week?
Why do you feel that way?
What is your favorite time of day?
What's your favorite candy bar?
What is your favorite ethnic cuisine?
If you could have any pets you wanted and had the space and money to properly care for them, what pets would you want to have?
Are you allergic to animals?
If someone gave you one million dollars that you were required to give to some person or organization, who would you give it to?
Do you enjoy hugging people?
Do you like receiving hugs?
What five things have you done in your life that you are most proud of?
Tell me about the most emotional cry that you can recall.
Has there ever been a time when you felt like you were going to "lose it"?
If your partner had an affair, how would you react?
Could you forgive him or her?
If your partner had a one-night fling after drinking too much, how would you react? Could you forgive him or her?
Are you able to keep secrets? Is it hard for you?
Have you ever given a speech? What was the last one about?
Does anyone give you an inferiority complex?
Do you think that luck has much to play in your life?
Do you find it difficult to compromise on things?
Do you have a fear of being alone? Rejected? Unloved? I
s there anything that makes you feel homesick, nostalgic or sentimental?
Do you have an idol?
Do you try to model yourself after him or her in some way?
Do you think of yourself more as a leader or a follower?
Over the last five years how do you think you have changed for the worse? Better?
Did you have a point in your life where you turned your life around?
What one thing could you change in your behavior that would make your relationship closer?
What is keeping you from making that change?
Is there anything that you constantly worry about?
If someone tells you a juicy tidbit about a friend or coworker, do you have difficulty keeping it to yourself?
Do you ever tell people they shouldn't gossip?
If you were paid a salary to work for any one charity for an entire year, which charity would you choose?
Are you an organized person?
If a fire destroyed your home and all of your belongings, what would you do?
If you could take out three things before the blaze, what would they be? (Assuming there is no one in the house at the time of the fire.)
If you were a very talented writer and were guaranteed to sell 100,000 copies of whatever book you wrote, what would it be about?
Does any particular season make you happier than others? If so, do you know why?
Do you like your first name? Have you ever wished you had a different name?
What name would it be?
When you are sick and feeling poorly, do you like to be alone or do you like to be pampered and have someone close to your side most of the time?
What is the most thoughtful, caring thing you have ever done?
Do you ever think that your partner gives more time, love and affection to a child or pet and it makes you jealous?
Do you like to exaggerate things for effect? I
f you had to be a different nationality, what country would you like to have been born in? Why?
If you were given $50,000 to throw a party for all of your friends, what sort of party would you put together?
Are you a morning, a night person or somewhere in the middle?
Do you think you would prefer a calm, loving, consistent marriage or one that was full of excitement, wild times and rocky patches?
Do you think you are a fairly typical man/woman in the way you think, act and believe?
Are you one who adapts to change easily? Can you cite some examples?
Do you have a child's heart sometimes?
What sort of “childish” things do you think about doing?
Are you generally an optimist, pessimist or a realist?
How often do you cry? What situations often bring you to tears?
What makes you feel secure and safe?
Do you tend to analyze your decisions before you talk about them or do ideas and thoughts blurt out without much forethought?
Would you describe yourself as a peace-keeper or a trouble-maker?
What type of social gatherings do you prefer - small groups or large parties?
Do you like to be the life of the party or do you prefer intimate, one on one conversation?
Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert? Does it change depending on the crowd?
Do you experience PMS? Is it mild or severe? How does your mood change and for how many days? How do you want to be treated during your period?
What do you tend to be humble about?
When do you catch yourself being arrogant?
Do you tend to keep a lot of thoughts and feelings to yourself or do you share them pretty openly?
Do you ever lose your temper? How does it manifest itself?
What things about me remind you of anyone from your past, either past sweethearts or good friends?
What do you think are my talents?
Do you think you have any of the same talents?
How many physical fights have you been in?
Do you usually start them? Why do you fight?
Has anyone very dear to you died? How did you handle it?
What are you most fearful of?
How does that fear keep you from doing things you would like to do?
Are you chirpy in the morning or are you a grouch?
Do you ever pick up hitchhikers? Which type of people would you pick up?
How often do you think your gut feeling is correct? When can you remember that it was incorrect?
What one skill do you wish you had learned but haven't yet (Play the piano? Learn a foreign language? Fly a plane? Etc.)?
Does public speaking frighten you? Have you had much experience with it?
What sort of reaction do you have when you get very upset?
Is it ever appropriate for someone to express anger in a physical way? If so, when and how?
How do typically handle the trauma from a big loss whether it is from the death of a loved one, getting fired or some other big disappointment?
What is your typical reaction when someone criticizes you?
About what things are you most selfish?
Do you think that you are able to calmly and wisely react in emergencies?
What are some examples of emergencies you have had?
How did you feel when a beloved pet of yours died?
Do you have a dream that repeats again and again? What is it?
What feeling do you have the most difficulty controlling?
What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
How do you think I handle myself when I'm in a crisis situation?
If you could choose to know everything about one topic, what area would you choose to be an expert?
How would someone be able to tell if you're happy? If you're sad?
Sheesh. Ive finally reached the end. LOL. Enjoy.
I am thinking that if you are in a relationship and it moves to a serious one, these are many of the things we will and should be learning about one another as the relationship is progressing...and I am sure MORE!
I myself am looking for "certain" things in a partner...they are who they are thou, bottom line.... and I would never consider trying to "change" them to fit what I want, need and desire. I feel everyone deserves to be happy, if they enjoy doing whatever it is, continue to do it, if it is something I am not interested in or like to do, I am not going to ask you to stop, but if we are doing it say five times a week, I do feel one to two times a week is fine just "cut" back and make "time" for one another!
I do know enough that you have to accept them for who "they" are as "nobody" is perfect...otherwise we are setting the relationship up for FAILURE...
In the end its what is important to us. I continue to learn and grow every day, but I am at a stage in my life where I choose to NOT settle. A man does NOT define me as a person or woman... but I do feel he would "complete" me!
Everything will be ok in the end, if it's not ok, then it's not the end
Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
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