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    Hi..
    For those who don't know me , I'm Nick and joined the forums for the first time back to November of 2007. (became a friend with Dave,Darryl,Buster and other old and valuable members).

    Forgive me for not speaking very good english ,I live in Greece..
    I remember that this topic,Falling out of love was created by Dave,after I mailed him that it isn't so important to get back together or heal because the most important thing in relationships is to PREVENT this from happening at all. I
    mean preventing your partner to fall out of love during the relationship.

    I''ll tell you some of the things you must not do during your relationship if you want to have a successfull life with your partner and not a sad breakup..


    -Jealousy . in my opinion it's the number one relationship killer.It shows insecurity. For example asking all the time , if she/he loves you , if he's cheating you , or being afraid all the time that you will get dumped.
    You have to know that by doing things like that you only pushing away..
    IT SHOWS IN-SE-CU-RI-TY.Try not to be controlling .

    -Putting him/her so high
    We love girls , and girls love boys that VALUE THEMSELVES.
    That mean that you have to love yourself first, and then love them .
    They are not your whole world.You have a purpose in your life and you have to show that they are not your purpose.They are not your purpose ,If your girlfriend/boyfriend become your purpose the relationship is near in the end..

    -Spending all the time together
    This is another relationship killer. It is like Dave used to say , giving them the same food everyday. You have to change the menu a little.
    You have to give time and space all the time to the other half.

    -Trying to be sooo nice
    I mean that you don't have to be all the time kind and of course buying all the time gifts and paying a lot of money just to please your partner.
    Try to be the leader.Not the follower.They love you for your character.

    -Εmotions (confidence/humor)
    It's like when you are single and you keep to hear that being confident is the key to win the guy/girl you like.The same thing applies for relationships.
    You have to demonstrate confidence and be playful . Humorous..Life is a joke they say. Try to understand the joke soon. Do not use emotions that bring sadness even if they broke up with you already!

    -Tip
    I'll give you a small tip..When you feel that your loosing control and that you are doing all the things above first of all relax...Then do the most right thing than pushing and pushing..SHOW LACK OF INTEREST. .Yes that's the tip.Stop calling all the time for a while , backoff a little,Stop doing all the things that you know are not good and soon you'll have the power again..


    I hope you follow these and you have a great relationship.
    After all you are not alone here.We all had difficult break ups..Ask me for example.I'm not an expert.I'm just like you.

    ~Nick
    All alone am I ever since your goodbye
    All alone with just a beat of my heart,
    People all around but I don't hear a sound,
    Just a lonely beating of my heart

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    Excellent points, I did all of these things.
    If only I knew these things before it was too late..
    Ah well, we live to learn. And I have learned A LOT since my break-up.

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    Hey Bobbe.
    We all know several things we are doing during the relationship are unattractive. But we tend to be so controlling,so insecure
    all the time and pushing away and away our partners. I believe we have to learn how to love first .
    Yes , I agree . If we knew these things , situations would be different.
    But I'll tell you what..It's never late!

    !Nick
    All alone am I ever since your goodbye
    All alone with just a beat of my heart,
    People all around but I don't hear a sound,
    Just a lonely beating of my heart

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    Hi Nick,

    Excellent points. Yeah in live we do mistakes.. mens are imperfect.

    We should get better man through learn our mistakes...

    and the point you gave was great ..patient, control and FOCUS leads our way to success... ermm FOCUS means (Forget Other Commitment Until u Success) ..

    Good Luck

    Steve

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    Everyday we are learning something.This is great.

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