Well, at least we can be treated well ONE day a year, right? Sounds an awful lot like squeezing an entire year's worth of appreciation and affection into one evening.
February 14th is just around the corner, and it's once again time for our Special Valentine to expect to receive the royal treatment from their male counterparts. Wrong! Generally, women would say they receive relatively ordinary treatment during most of their Valentine dates. This year, to prove your partner wrong, treat her to a complete and well thought-out evening she won't forget. To make this evening a memorable one, spoil her with the little things that she probably forgot even existed.
It goes without saying that this special date will require you to wear your most attractive attire. It might be a good idea to buy yourself a new shirt or sweater, preferably in the tones or colors she likes seeing you in. Think about it, how do you react when she buys a new sexy ensemble? Once you are dressed and ready to go, stop at the local flower shop to buy her a dozen of the best-looking red roses. On your way to pick her up, make sure your hair is just right and your breath smells fresh.
To start the evening smoothly, be punctual. Being on time for your rendezvous will set the tone for a smooth and pleasant evening. When picking her up (assuming you have a car), be a gentlemen and open the car door for her. While doing so, present her with the roses and a greeting kiss. These little details of opening the car door and handing her roses might seem like fussy details to many men, but for Valentine's Day, they are little stunts used to impress most women.
Settle on a restaurant with a cozy and romantic ambiance, and don't forget to make reservations. Preferably, choose a restaurant with good background music a candlelight setting. Opt for a small and quiet restaurant instead of a busy, mainstream one. This will accentuate the romantic tone of the evening.
What else can you do to be more romantic?
Details & Attention
When entering the restaurant, take care of opening the door and asking the host to be seated. Taking care of such simple details like opening the door and letting her in before you, will set the evening apart from conventional dates. Many might say these details are exaggerated and useless, but women generally like a man with good manners. Women enjoy the extra attention given to them.
After properly helping her take a seat, engage yourself in a deep conversation focusing almost exclusively on her. Instead of asking her about mundane daily activities, establish a romantic discussion focused on her needs. Ask her what she likes to eat or drink. Ask her what her future plans are. In other words, tailor the conversation around her the entire evening.
By simply staring in her eyes and ignoring what is happening around you, you can focus your thoughts on her and make her feel cherished. Also, in case the waiter forgets to ask how her foods was, inquire on whether she liked it or not. Make sure her wine glass is filled when needed, and compliment her every time you have a chance.
When coffee and dessert is being served, find out what she feels like doing next. Pick up the tab, and follow through with a special evening full of surprises...
Taken from: http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/success13b.html
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit." -Aristotle
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