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I always felt like I had a higher sex drive than my ex. In our case, we would go months (in one case, an entire year) without seeing each other, so you can imagine how a long period of self-enforced celibacy will do that. He had a high sex drive as well (we were DEFINITELY more compatible in that department than I had been with anyone else), and when we did visit, we usually would end up pawing at each other within about half an hour after I or he first got there.
I guess I can't expect to have sex EVERY SINGLE DAY while we were together. But when he would say he was really tired, or didn't feel well (too much food, etc.), I'd wind up feeling rejected and wondered if he actually though I was attractive. I also had this complex for a VERY long time in which I thought I was bad at sex. I'll admit that I still kind of wonder that from time to time, though I try not to really let it bother me, since sex isn't really part of my life at the moment.
I guess I had trouble understanding it because, with me, unless I'm horribly, HORRIBLY sick (we're talking flu, pneumonia, etc.), I can still be up for sex pretty much any time. I forget sometimes that not all people work like that.