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    Hey guys, I
    Sorry for my bad english but it's not my native lenguaje:o

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    Aww sweetheart, you are way too hard on yourself, you know that?

    If your decision is to walk away from him, then you need to be patient with yourself. You can't force yourself to forget him, but you can make it easier on yourself and make the healing as fast as possible. NC, distrations, thought stoppage,... they are your friends right now.

    It sounds like you are alot more emotionally mature than he is, and sadly, you cannot change a person, but only how you react to them. Neither of you are 'wrong', but just have different opinions and hold different things important. It is not his fault that you want more than he can give, and it is not your fault that you want more than he can give. I believe you are doing the right thing, and rather than flogging a dead horse, it makes more sense for you to find a person that has equal values to you.

    Don't hate yourself hon, you're human! Regardless of how much someone hurts you, you cannot just switch off your feelings. However, you can use this hurt to remind you why you are doing the right thing.

    You are a fantastic, stunningly beautiful, kind and caring woman Romi, and some lucky guy will hit the jackpot when you make him yours. Oh and guess what? When you meet that lucky guy, you'll be thanking your ex for letting you go!!
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    Thanks Dan.
    I do think that I’ve done the right thing. Maybe what’s bother me is that he disappear. Not knowing what he’s feeling, if he misses me, why he didn’t cancel his flight to the US (on April 2nd) if he knows we are not going together…
    Maybe he thinks that I’m with this guy his friend saw me with. I don’t know.
    And yes, right now I’m doing things for me (started the gym, started therapy, going out with my friends, investments, beauty things and reading a lot)… I hope time do its work…
    Thanks again (thx for the compliment ),
    Romi
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    Always go with what you know, and not what you assume..... don't try to second guess him or what he is thinking or feeling. Just accept that you don't know and try to let those thoughts go. Keep your focus on you, and take each day at a time sweetie. We're here if you need us, always
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    I can't offer much advice but chin up girl it will get easier

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