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    So I met this girl at a college party on Friday, we were flirting, complementing each other etc then I got her number. The next day she text me and told me to come to the dorm party on campus. I went and we danced, were drinking and were holding hands etc. Me, my friends, and hers went back to their dorm and we were flirting some more, hooking up (no sex) etc. Despite the fact that I just met this girl and it was a college party we actually hit it off kinda well, and they were talking about us coming back.

    I've been single for just over 3 months after a long term relationship, so I'm not 100% used to this. That's why I'll go ahead and ask you all for some advice. I haven't talked to her in about 3 days, and I was wondering if I should text her or anything to keep the lines of communication open. Or just wait till the weekend comes around and see what shes up to?

    Thanks!

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    Nyckidd...

    Are you emotionally ready for a relationship or the dating scene?


    Ask yourself that questions and get back to us.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperDave71 View Post
    Nyckidd...

    Are you emotionally ready for a relationship or the dating scene?


    Ask yourself that questions and get back to us.


    -SuperDave71

    I def feel like I'm ready to date around and meet women etc. As for a serious relationship, I don't plan on having one for a while just because I am enjoying time to myself and not being committed etc.

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    Nyckidd,

    Any progresss on your story? Hope all is well.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperDave71 View Post
    Nyckidd,

    Any progresss on your story? Hope all is well.


    -SuperDave71

    Hey SuperDave, so I gave her a text on Friday to see what she was up to for the night, and we conversed back and forth for a little. But it eventually fizzled out and she didn't respond to my last text so I kept it at that.

    She was a cool girl, but for some reason she must have just not been into me even though she certainly seemed like it!

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    Thanks for the reply. I am sorry things did not work out but hey...that is what dating is all about.


    Hang in there and thanks for the response!


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    If you like the girl, why not text her? Texting is just another form of communication and a lot of people prefer it over a phone call. You should start with a"radar" text letting her know you have her in your mind in a subtle way. When she responds, try and make a connection. After that, quickly ask her on a date. Don't overanalyze it. It's easier than you think.
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    yeah in general I would say no harm in texting. most girls will expect the guy to initiate esp early on


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