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    Me and my fiancee have the best relationship ever. But although she's willing to commit to me 100% she worries she may be bisexual, she loves me and had told me she has experimented on the past but wants to figure out if she's actually capable of loving women. She doesn't want to leave me or even experiment, she's hoping either it'll stop bothering her or shell become more comfortable with it. Should I worry I'm holding her back from knowing this?

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    I think I should add that I wouldn't care if she was bisexual, after all, she chose me over so many other possibilities. And I don't think bi people are any more likely to cheat than a person of any other orientation, cheating is in some peoples nature but not hers, or mine. I just want het to be comfortable with who or what she may be. She only told me about this now (after 14 months of being together) because she thought I'd freak out

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    Hi Wintermute92,

    I would suggest she seek some professional help in this area. It will help her to be less confused and to enable her to talk about it in an open arena.
    There are quite a few support groups, it may be useful for her to drop in on these and see how she feels.

    Please let us know how she gets on.

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    I feel you should decide if you are worried about her figuring herself out or you finding out if YOU can handle the thought of sharing her if you might have to accept her for her! I only say this because my fiancee is bi sexual also.

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    I have been married to my wife for 10 years. She was bi when we were dating, we got out of the lifestyle (swinging) about 8 years ago. When pregnant with our first boy, now I could say that I'd forgotten about her being bisexual, but more the truth is that she had stuffed it away, she was still interested but through having kids (3 kids) 8, 6, 4 we had just put that away... Or so it seems... She has just come out to me again, it was a surprise to be sure, unexpected it was not. I need to remind myself of this often. I choose to be as supportive as I can be, and she is supportive of me and my concerns as well. I am willing to share her with a female but that is it so far. I am waiting for the question to come up though when she realizes she isn't finding a female with out a male to join them, I don't know what my response will be, to be honest it brutally scares me, but we will address it when it comes up.

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    We may end up back swinging so she can experience what she wants and I can be there too. Sure it is nice to build a relationship with the other couple but when you think about what we actually want. This seems like a win-win situation for us...

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    we are divorcing, again i think it was a communication problem with us. i don't think every couple who goes into an open relationship is doomed.

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