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  1. 05-06-2012, 02:23 PM #1
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    What am I doing wrong? I havent been able to make love to my wife in almost six months...any answers?
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  2. 05-07-2012, 08:00 AM #2
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    Hello and welcome. Could you elaborate a bit more on why YOU believe you can't make love to your wife? We need a few more details if you don't mind.


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  3. 05-07-2012, 12:24 PM #3
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    Yes, this question is too vague. It would help to know if it's you having trouble or if it's her not having sex with you?
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    She constantly blows me off, and is never in the mood

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    Do you have any idea WHY she might be doing this?


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  6. 05-08-2012, 09:34 AM #6
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    And have you addressed this problem with her? That may be your first step.
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  7. 05-09-2012, 11:30 PM #7
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    Yes I have. She just ignores me. It will b 17 yrs this year that we have been married. ???

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  8. 05-12-2012, 07:54 AM #8
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    3kids, she wil not kiss me or hug me, and no she is not an emotional person. Truthfully i have emotional problems. All she does is treat me like im a coworker...last time it was over christmas...that long...

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  9. 05-14-2012, 01:04 AM #9
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    Man...
    I recently went through this same thing.
    Got pushed away repeatedly.
    Eventually gave up went elsewhere... (I don't advise this route as I kinda ****ed my life up)
    However.
    She started pushing me away physically because she was sleeping elsewhere unkown to me at the time, and the latter allegedly was due to self concicse issues.

    The one good thing that came out of me cheating, was getting my confidence back in the bedroom. Which i'd lost for quite sometime....

    I'd say.
    Check if she's cheating.
    Or.
    If she dislikes her own body.



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  10. 05-14-2012, 03:28 PM #10
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    To be honest, i have to agree with Ash here and say that it's possible the attraction ignited somewhere else... it's a hurried conclusion, that's true, but how was your sex life prior to this 6 months wall ?
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  11. 05-15-2012, 12:43 PM #11
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    Having been in this situation the other way around I would just immediately assume that she is cheating. Sure, that could be a possibility but I know for me that wasn't the case. I had a pretty high sex drive before being pregnant and towards the end it got uncomfortable and after I had an issue with pain for a long time but mixed in with that I really think a lot of it was deeper issues in the relationship. I felt like I wasn't getting enough affection and that we were arguining too much. I was upset emotionally so that made me never in the mood and I would turn down sex and I'd feel bad about it but often times I would mostly be too exhausted and afraid of not enjoying it. I think not having sex often probably contributed to more problems too. Definitely if you have the chance to and your wife is willing to make an effort too.. You two should sit down and really have a good talk about things. Tall about how you feel about the fact that you two haven't had sex and see what she feels about it. Ask her what the two of you can do to improve and fix whatever issues are lying underneath it all. Don't expect to pressure about sex right away and often. Just figure out what to do to start trying again. If she is cheating.. The guy above is right about how nothing really good will come out of you finding sexual satisfaction elsewhere. Just talk to see where the both of you stand first and see what can be done.
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    Most of my emotional problems stem from my childhood. To ne quite honest, I was raped by three teenage boys when I was 11 yrs old. I didnt tell anyone about it until I was 29. I still haven't seen anyone about it. Maybe i'm just to scared, I don't know...

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