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    To give a little back story on my relationship. I have been dating my current gf for 4 months now. Before we started dating she has been broken up(sort of I guess) with her last bf of 6 years for 2 months. She has no kids and they have never been engaged. So what I wanted to ask here is should I ask her if she has told her ex and/or family about us? To my knowledge she has not and it has gotten me a little worried. Also a little more info...her and her ex are still living together due to the lease. She said it would cost too much to break it and move somewhere else. So what do you guys think? Should I ask her or am I just blowing this up too much.

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    spdrcr208,

    Welcome. If you are concerned about something, keeping it inside and not addressing it is likely to cause you problems. Communication is key to relationships. I suggest you speak to her and express your concern and explain your desire to be part of her life; which for you includes meeting her family/friends and knowing that her ex is aware that you are with her. My question to you is, what will you say/do if she tells you she doesn't want anyone to know right now?

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