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    Unhappy Friend or more?

    I am single not very social have few friends. I've had one proper relationship which ended badly. After that its been my normal self the same single not very social guy. A girl lives opposite my place for the past 2 years we have been close friends she has been very nice to me and me to her and i do things for her that normally no else would. She also has a boyfriend. I like her a lot sometimes i don't know if its love or like, i think about her most of the time but i don't know if its the same with her.
    Sometimes she doesn't talk to me at all and suddenly she talks very well with me.But the problem is only recent. For the past 6 months we have been getting very close like when the both of us are alone we literally cant keep our hands of each other.She hugs me a lot, plays with my hair, cheek, nose etc.. And she would lie down on the bed with me cuddle with me, bring her face close to mine, bite me all these flirtish things but nothing sexual only holding hands and stuff like that. Is this how girls are normally friends with guys? Even close friends i mean
    So she has a boyfriend with whom she has a proper relationship with but still she does these things with me. Does this mean anything? Surely we are not just close friends now. During those cuddling times sometimes i want to kiss her so much but should i do it?? Will it be inappropriate if i do it?? Is this how close friends normally are?? teasing cuddling and all?? This problem has been consuming me and is killing me. Please help me.
    Different points of view would be really helpful

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    Hi,
    I feel that you should try and socialise a bit more and meet new people. I think this girl you are close friends with may be using you a little bit. You say that you do things for her that no one else will. If she has a proper relationship with her boyfriend then she is just playing with you. You would be better off finding a girl that is single and who you can have a proper relationship with. The way she is behaving towards you isn't that of a normal friendship. She is definitely either very confused in her feelings towards you or she is just flirting. You could try talking to her and ask her how she really feels towards you.

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    Hi kathy
    Thank you sooo much
    That is exactly what I wanted to know if it was normal or not. Yes I've been meeting new people lets see how it goes

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