confused and would really like some perspective

[nick2390]

my ex and i broke up in june and well i stayed in contact with her for a while and when i started seeing that contact would not work in bringing her back i decided to do NC which i did for 3 weeks and 3 days i then called her up with the intention of organising a get together and she seemed happy to hear from me and agreed instantly after we set up time and date i ended the convo then when the time comes up and i call her to find out if she's still up to it she says how she has some stuff to do later and can't make it again i diddn freak out or anything i just took it cool and said well ok cooland wished her well as i couldn stay for lon. My question is why would she do that is she playing with me?

[yuffie]

Maybe she's just confused and doesnt know what she wants. Be careful not to get your hopes only to be shot down
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[OhManINeedCoffee]

Without much more information, I can't really make an educated guess. At the same time, I'm afraid that the only person who could really answer that question is your ex...we try to give advice as best we can here, but we can't read minds, unfortunately. Just keep in mind that actions speak louder than words.