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Originally Posted by
Tiggerinlondon
Sometimes, things that might seem a little upsetting are actually there to help guide us to the best course of action. Listen to the world and try to learn from what's happened.
Annita
I have agree with Annita here Mariana, and the part I've quoted above could have been taken from my own heart.
I know you're hurting deeply right now, but in my opinion, the part of you that misses him are the parts of you that hates the change this creates and the feeling of rejection. Rejection is never easy, but knowing about the other person will help you move forward faster than having no clue what happened and holding onto false hope.
You do need to shift your focus away from him. It's great that you can't see his FB account as there is nothing on there that will help you.
Ya know, whether he is on a rebound or not actually makes no difference TO YOU. It doesn't change anything hon. My ex happily bounced from one person to the next within days of a break up (or so it seemed). It cut me deeply when she did the same after me, and I hung onto hope that she would return once she became bored with rebound guy...... they announced their engagement a few months ago. Honestly, let go of the false hope and as Annita has said, try to move forward with your life without him. Remaining NC will make you stronger over time. We know how difficult it is when you love someone, but you deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. You deserve to be treated like princess, not a nuisance.
I learnt the greatest and most powerful lessons from my devastating heartbreak. I am now so grateful that I went through that pain, because I would never has grown as much emotionally and spiritually as I have without it. Hold onto the lessons this is teaching you hon, you can and WILL do this, I promise.
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