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    Default She told me she wanted to be more than friends since day one ?

    About 9 months a started a new job for car manufacture company. I work a lot of hours(60 to70hrs per week) so I am around all of my fellow employees(union brothers&sisters) more than I am around my own family. Within the 9 months I became very close with fellow employees and I would consider them my brothers and sister. Well this is about the little sister in our group, I have always looked at her like a little sister she being the youngest 22 years old and myself 28 years old. She is attractive but for me I didn't feel the need to try to hit on her or get into her pants because I looked at her as little sister and I still do. Well last night after 9 months of working together and everyone else knowing this but me, she told me she was in love with me and since day one she wanted to be more than friends. It blew me out the water I didn't know what to say, so not to hurt her feelings I told her I was always interested in her. The truth is I do not look at her sexually or in that kind of way. I need to some advice should I try to force it and see what happens or should I hurt her feelings and tell her I see her as a good friend/little sister ?

    P.S. I am 100% Heterosexual

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    Hi there,

    What's said is said, but I don't understand why you think it would have hurt her feelings if you said you didn't feel the same. Sometimes it takes a nudge for people to even see someone in a romantic light.

    In my opinion, I don't think you need to 'force' anything. If you are open to dating her, why not just go out on a few dates and see what progresses. When you're seeing her in this new light, you never know what could happen. She may decide after a few dates that she'd rather stay friends. I guess it ultimately comes down to what you want. If you are 100% sure she is just like a Sister and will never be anything more then you need to tell her that. If you're open, see where it takes you.
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    Yes I am going to try a few dates and see how it goes.

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    We look forward to hearing about how those dates go and why or why not you were or were not attracted to her! Thanks.

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