Just got into a lond distance relationship and having a tough time

[Rebnole]

Ok so I have been put in a situation. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and its been the best year of my life I love this girl so much. Well about two months ago she told me she had to move to NYC I live in pensacola fl. She moved about a month ago and I have been in hell ever since.
The reason that she had to move to New York is because she couldn't find a job over here and she wants to go to grad school up there. I just have such a hard time with this because I feel like she didn't really try to find a job that hard in pensacola and the college in pensacola has her grad school program. Am I out of line to feel that she just left me. I know she still loves me but I just don't think I can do this for three years. I love her with all my heart and have thought about following her but I'm just an ol country boy and an terrified of the thought of moving to a huge city also I don't have the money to make that kind of move. What do y'all think I should do I feel like I am losing her and I hate what I feel like right now any advice will help thank you

[owen23]

You have to decide in two ways, first if you are mature enough and serious with your job than slowly with passing time you forget every thing and you will be well settled but loose her. Second option is just go to find her and find some other job where you find her but it be big risk for your career.