Alright, guys, someone please explain something to me....
Scenario..... guy and girl are best friends. Super best friends. Guy and girl both make their feelings known. Everybody's happy. (ps.... HE made the first moves. I was trying to take it slow for his sake and once he came clean, I followed his lead and then he realized he wasn't ready. I said I was okay just being friends, but he still wigged out.) Then guy realizes that the girl is truly attached. Guy bounces. Why??????? What is it about knowing that a girl is hooked that runs y'all off? I don't understand. "I just want somebody to love me unconditionally." But as soon as he gets that, he gets scared off! I'm so frustrated over this. Can some of you awesome men please explain this to me? I'm happy to pm more details because I'd really like some advice on the best way to keep this friendship. Yes, friendship. I'm not in a hurry for anything at all, but he's been my best friend and I don't want to lose that. Thanks for your help guys!! Y'all rock!!