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    So... I've been with this guy for 2 months, we broke up 4 times since we met (i know, a lot) because we r always having arguments and he never wants to talk about. He says he loves me ad wants to be with me but it makes hard to it. We started very fast, he rushed things. He introduced me to his family at the first week we were dating and said he loved me at the 2nd one. And thats what made me like him.
    We broke up last week and now we r gettin back together (again). But he says he wants to slow things down. How is that even possible with all the intensity we have? I said is hard for me since I fell in love for the guy I met, not the "slow things down guy". He said he is stressed with family and work an thats why he is pushing me away, when im actually want to be there for him. Am I wrong?? We live each other too much, but I dont feel like slowing things. Im 24 and he is 28

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    Dear Roxiew,

    I think you should try not to panic. Sometimes things can become overwhelming in a relationship. It is fair and right to ask for things to be less hectic and to ask your partner to support you in this. He has been honest and truthful. If he wants to slow things down, and you want to be supportive, then I'd suggest taking things at his pace. If it turns out this is his way of breaking up with you, then you will know. As there will end up being no contact initiated by him. Take a few deep breaths and allow things to flow. By trying to push things you may well cause a break up, when all that was needed was a little time and space for re-adjustment.

    Good luck.

    All the best,

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