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    Hi Mamasnap,

    Exec has some good points. All I would add is, be yourself! It sounds to me like you are checking everything with the other person. Just do/say what you want!

    If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you! She certainly has no issues telling you not to ask questions, so she can't complain. This way you are not only sure which salad dressing you want, but she gets to learn what you want too.

    (Just in case you are not sure what you want, there is a little test, it goes like this:

    Caeser or Thousand Island?

    Quickly you think/say:

    Black or white - white,
    yes or no - yes
    dog or cat - both
    caeser or thousand - thousand.

    It doesn't have to be those questions, but quick ones you know the answer to instinctively, that way you get to your real sub-concious truth, when you get to your "real" question. It's likely you've heard it before as word association.)

    Good luck.

    All the best,

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    I've known this guy for 4 months and we keep fighting over his dating profile. Our relationship got intense fast he started talking about kids. I also want kids. We are very passionate for each other but don't really connect emotionally. Every time we visit each other I get mad at him because I check to see if his profile is active and it always says "online today" or "online now" right after I leave his place. I know I sound possessive and jealous but it's really hurting me and tearing our relationship apart. He says he's never been with anyone but me and said he can go on 3 dates if he wanted to when he was angry. I've been trying to move on but when I'm with anyone else I keep thinking about him. I don't know what to do. Please help.


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    Dear punkettechnic,

    You do know what is best for you, you said it yourself "I've been trying to move on..." This guy is toxic, you cannot keep an active profile if you are really interested in a relationship with the person you are seeing. He seems to want to have his cake and eat it!

    My view is that you need to focus on yourself and let this guy go. He is IMHO wanting to see if there is anyone "better" than you out there. How rude! IME if he is so insecure to need validation someone other than people he loves and himself and/or so narcissistic he thinks he can keep you dangling and see others, then he is damaged goods and my suggestion, follows your own, move on.

    Look for someone who values you.

    Also do you have self esteem issues? Why are you with this guy if he is not valuing you as you should be? Is that a trend for you? Try to work out why you might allow this, it will help you not pick people like him in the future.

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    Thank you, that really made me think clear about the situation. I think he's desperate and has major trust issues. I don't need someone like him in my life anymore.


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