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I went through something similar but there was marriage and everything. When it ended, I made a decision to avoid her at all costs and make the most of my time in the other country. It was actually liberating and strengthening to be able to just focus on myself. Started off being tough. I passed the time by chatting online in support groups etc. A few months later I just woke up one day and decided I was ready to go home. You're lucky you're only 22. As tough as it feels, I'm 41 and I put 12 years into my situation that I will never get back. It's okay to lose a piece of yourself to someone else, just don't lose any more to your own fears or doubts.
Incidentally I am now remarried, have a kid and a pretty good job. Ironically I'd have none of that if I hadn't gone through that situation.
Good luck mate.
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