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    Default My husband found out I kissed a girl before we met

    alright,
    So I have a really close friend of mine. She's a girl and we've been friends for 7 years.
    The within the first two weeks we knew each other (we were 13 y/o at the time) we shared a kiss. But we quickly regretted it and decided it was silly and never did it again.
    We forgot about the whole incident and
    We became super best friends.

    3 years later I met my now husband. (I was 16)

    We married almost 2 months ago (I'm 20 and he's 22)

    And yesterday my friend decided it would be funny to make a joke about what happened 7 years ago. I had completely forgotten about it! Anyways, my husband found out and now he is very upset. This morning he didn't even want me to walk him out on his way to work and he didn't even kiss me goodbye. When I ask him to talk about it he's just like "everything is fine. I'm fine." But I know he's lying.

    What do I do???? What do I say?? I texted him today telling him I was really sorry while he was at work. Of course I plan to discuss it with him again once he gets back... But he's like really hard to talk to sometimes. He just blows me off and stays mad until he gets over it. I feel like without communication our marriage won't last long so i NEED him to talk to me about what's going on in his head...

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    Quote Originally Posted by eidrib View Post
    alright,
    So I have a really close friend of mine. She's a girl and we've been friends for 7 years.
    The within the first two weeks we knew each other (we were 13 y/o at the time) we shared a kiss. But we quickly regretted it and decided it was silly and never did it again.
    We forgot about the whole incident and
    We became super best friends.

    3 years later I met my now husband. (I was 16)

    We married almost 2 months ago (I'm 20 and he's 22)

    And yesterday my friend decided it would be funny to make a joke about what happened 7 years ago. I had completely forgotten about it! Anyways, my husband found out and now he is very upset. This morning he didn't even want me to walk him out on his way to work and he didn't even kiss me goodbye. When I ask him to talk about it he's just like "everything is fine. I'm fine." But I know he's lying.

    What do I do???? What do I say?? I texted him today telling him I was really sorry while he was at work. Of course I plan to discuss it with him again once he gets back... But he's like really hard to talk to sometimes. He just blows me off and stays mad until he gets over it. I feel like without communication our marriage won't last long so i NEED him to talk to me about what's going on in his head...
    Exactly! LEAVE HIM ALONE! my wife does exactly the same ****! Leave him alone! He says he's fine, he's fine! Women tend to over analyze **** and refuse to leave **** alone! You did nothing wrong. He's fine and like you said he will eventually get over it, not on your terms but his. Eventually the little head will take over and he will come back and want to have sex. It's cool. You're ok! I can't express it enough leave him alone!

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    Default What's actually going on?

    Hi,

    I hear that there is an underlying communication issue that is unresolved and you're afraid that anything could lead to a divorce because you don't communicate well together.

    Have you tried talking with him about this topic and the lack of meaningful communication? Sometimes communication styles can be different, but actually usually both partners want the same end goal, to resolve the issue & be happy together. Couples counselling is also another good option to aid marital communication issues.

    Take care.
    "Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." Buddha

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