Why is it so hard?

[radioman6923]

I'm looking for advice mainly from women and possibly men who have had success with online dating. I have paid profiles on Okcupid and Match.com, but so far, all the women I've contacted read my message, visit my profile, but NEVER respond...even if they're not interested in me. I'm polite, and friendly in my messages to them and my profiles are short and to the point.

What do women want to know about a guy in his profile before they typically decide on whether or not they respond to messages? How can I write my emails to women that will increase the chances of a women responding to my email?

I know there are some women who judge based on looks..if you don't look the part, you have zero chance of getting a response, then there's women who have profiles, but aren't paid subscribers, so they can't read or respond.

I'm 33 yrs old and have never really dated. Bars aren't my scene. I do live alone and have a cat that keeps me company.

I just want to hear how I can improve my chances of getting responses anden meeting new people. Thanks!

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[SuperDave71]

Hey Radioman,

Thanks for joining us. I am sorry you are going through your current situation but how did you meet women in the past? Did you meet through friends, family, a group or organization, possibly church?

-SupDave71

[Freya]

Picky?


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