The No Contact Challenge -SuperDave71

[SuperDave71]

Hello everyone at theLoveLogic,

I suddenly had a great idea...( scary huh? ;) )


Let's start the SuperDave 71 NO CONTACT CHALLENGE...


Here are the rules:


1. When you accept this challenge, post here and your time/date stamp will be recorded for accuracy.

2. No Contact will be initiated for ONE MONTH from the date that you post. This mean NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER...and I mean NONE. (Including going to picture sites and myspace/or like sites)

3. If you work with your ex, you can still accept the challenge. You cannot do ANYTHING to contact your ex UNLESS it is work related ONLY.

4. If you accept this challange, I would like a post everyday on how you are feeling and what you are doing to pass the time. I am hoping by doing this, others will read and try to help themselves is they have a moment of weakness.


**Remember**


No Contact is for you


5. If you have contact with your ex BY YOUR DOING..YOU MUST POST WHY YOU DID IT AND HOW YOU FEEL RIGHT AFTER. No exceptions.

6. If your ex contacts you, UNLESS IT IS AN EMERGENCY, or there are children involved, you cannot respond. PERIOD. If you do, see rule 5.

7. If an ex comes over or tries to see you physically, this DOES NOT COUNT AGAINST YOU, BUT you MUST POST.

8. After the month of No Contact has past, you must reread all of yoru daily threads and write a conclusion based on what you felt when you started and how you feel 30 days later.

9. When you post daily, please put what day number you are on of the 30 day challenge so that other members can see how you are doing.


I would like for this to happen because I want other to read the progression involved in the NO CONTACT process.


If you do NOT feel you are up to the challange, ...wait until you are.


I wish you all the best....and GOOD LUCK.


If you accept my challenge, you will be very surprised at the end result.



Your friend,


SuperDave71

[thirdeyevest]

Day 10- I feel a lot better now that the love logic is back. If you wanna know what I have been thinking just read the post "Plan B".....

Its the OSU/Michigan game today go BUCKS!!!!!

[Broken Rain]

Day 15
I'm not sure what to say, I still can't understand this. Why is he gone? He used to be worried that I'd leave him but because we had set a date (for our marriage) he was having faith that that would be one major thing which would keep me with him. Duh, it was just love that kept me.

I just can't understand why it seems to be so easy for him to cut all contact and ignore. This is unnatural, I know he loved me too .. it wasn't just words but actions too, unless he's one heck of an actor.

Sure he's having financial problems right now, sure his life is upside down .. I feel for him but why he cut me out it?! Quoting him "I just need to get my life in order before I start anything new, that's just my way" What the heck that's suppose to mean.

My day 13 & 14 are posted in my blog if anyone cares to read =)

[thatdoggirl]

Hello everyone at theLoveLogic,

I suddenly had a great idea...( scary huh? )

SuperDave71

OMG! The best idea ever!

[thirdeyevest]

Broken- I replied to your blog because I didnt know you posted it here as well.

[Broken Rain]

Broken- I replied to your blog because I didnt know you posted it here as well.

Thank you!

I decided to post my daily progress there as well so I can easily look
back later and just have it all in one place, that is if the forum doesn't
crash again

[thirdeyevest]

I am sure dave is working on a way to back up all the data so this does not happen again. Hang in there broken

[snoops]

im currentley on day 4 of the nc, its going ok exept ive been feeling a bit down today as ive had to much time to think, all i can think about is who she with? is she seing sum1 else? how can she just forget about me after a 4year relationship? but im still going stong as every day passes i feel like ive accomplished somthing which makes me stronger, i just hope she realises what she has lost otherwise she is going to find someone else! these are the things that has been on my mined every day of nc, but managed to control them by keeping busy!

[thirdeyevest]

Hey snoops have you read my post "a few ideas on how to get YOU back"? I was in your shoes just recently....check it out man!

[superconfused]

Day 7

Wow, I'm so happy this place is back. I was seriously going crazy the last few days. I'm still asking myself all those stupid questions that I'll never have answers to. But, I'm looking forward to watching some football today and going for a run. The weather is awesome right now. So there's something too look forward to!

[JTV2008]

Day 13
Mood: Not sure yet

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I just downloaded that John Mayer song Dreaming With A Broken Heart and all I can say is WOW. Makes your chest seem tight because you can FEEL what he is saying.

I've had a tough few days, but I was ok. With the board being down, it just forced me to get out and get busy.


when you're dreaming with a broken heart
the waking up is the hardest part
you roll outta bed and down on your knees
and for the moment you can hardly breathe

when you're dreaming with a broken heart
the giving up is the hardest part

[thirdeyevest]

Superonfused- Thats right man there is always something to look forward too!

[thirdeyevest]

Jen- yea that dude makes you wanna cry for like 498 days straight, love his music though! I am glad to see you have made it almost 2 weeks!!!! That is awesome...That means im on day 11 YAY!!!!!

The board being down forced me to get out because with my laptop in well my lap I would have made it over to myspace...glad I didn't though....

Hope your havin a good day

[JTV2008]

Josh, you crack me up. While I HATE that Dave is having to deal with getting the board back up and running (you're the best, Dave!), it actually helped me in a weird way because like you, it forced my a$$ out of the house which is exactly what I needed!

Congrats on not only getting to double digits, but doubling your personal best!!! I see a volcano taco in your future!

I hope Coffee is ok ........

[thatdoggirl]

Oh I know... she better be okay! Where are you Coffee?!?!