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    Hmm... now I haven't been in very many relationships but I think I'm behind what most of everyone else has said so far. Maybe what JTV said about not having the butterflies might not be such a bad thing, however, it depends on whether it feels right to you. You sound like you're doing pretty good though and it's good that you are giving it all some thought and giving her a chance. It's great that you enjoy spending time with her and hopefully feel a connection. Just keep being you and doing what you do! You are such a wonderful guy with an amazing personality and you just rock! Don't you forget that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thirdeyevest View Post
    Joe- My brotha' from anotha' motha', what's up man?...I agree dude I just need to sit back and relax for a bit. Just let things fall into or out of place. I do have this!

    Thanks man
    LOL... Hey man I'm doin alright. Just over analyzing everything in my life as usual. Nothing new for me, haha. I wish I could be as relaxed as you!!

    -Joe

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    The rebound? No I dont believe that is the case. This is the 3rd girl I have dated since my ex but she is the first one that I have gotten close to. I think I may be just jumping the gun a bit. I need to just settle down.

    Joe- Yo dude ya gotta simmer down on the analytical thinking lol. You just be you buddy and everything else will fall into place.
    "let go of the one you HAD so you can dream of the one you'll GET"

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    hey josh!

    i also think you just have take a chill pill it doesn't really sound like anything is "wrong." i'd suggest that the butterfly feelings might not be there because you are comfortable with this girl, and that's great.

    sorry i didn't see this earlier, i hope you're feeling more relaxed and positive!
    "be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."


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    Thank you Suzie, things are a little better on my end. I have not seen her in a few days and I kinda miss the girl So thats a good sign.
    "let go of the one you HAD so you can dream of the one you'll GET"

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    i kinda agree with dave and majik on this one. i mean i am really happy for you that you can feel something for someone, but the fact that you don't feel the crazy intense feelings of a new relationship kind of makes it seem like youre not ready for that yet? listen, only you know for sure what's right for you, and i think that taking it slow really is the best thing to do (im in the same boat with another guy, trying to figure out how i feel and what i want and if i'm ready, and we both decided to just take it very very VERY slow...). VERRRRRRY slow. just to figure out if it's the right time yet. it doesn't really seem like it is in my opinion but i hope everything works out. i just borrowed kelley's "josh is #1" foam finger and it's on right now. good luck!

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    I hope you had a nice weekend Josh~

    Missing her is a very good sign! Stay true to Josh, the rest will fall into place.



    Everything will be ok in the end, if it's not ok, then it's not the end

    Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.

    HUGS!

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