Oh I wouldn't think a thing about it - it happens sometimes. And I promise it has nothing to do with you - just one of those things. =)
If you are taking prenatal vitamins get him involved. B12 in a higher dose for a few days will bring him back to life. I had a similar issue recently due to stress and now well lets just say a rabbit would be proud!! Stress is a killer and if he's not into regular exercise he's going to have to find a way to cope with it and in this situation his stress is going to be off the chart. But yea B12 puts my libedo to the point its almost annoying.
I don't really think it's the vitamins as much as the fact that every pregnancy is different. All females respond to hormonal changes differently also. It's not uncommon for a female to become hyper-sexual during pregnancy, and it's just as likely that she loses her sex drive all-together.
As for HIS issues, contrary to popular belief, men are emotional beings too and if something else is bothering us (stress) it will have an effect on our energy level as a whole. That being said though I can be depressed and ready to go at the same time so I guess it's different for everyone. Damn...talking about all this makes me want some "stress-relief" even more. Ugh!
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thanks for the input!
i am feeling pretty blue today and i don't know if it's just hormones or real feelings.
we've had sex since then and it was great, but yesterday he seemed to be pulling away a little from me - as he has done in the past. i asked him if he was in a bad mood and he just said yes. he went to bed at 7:30 last night. i am starting to worry about him - his stress level and what he's thinking. he has a REALLY hard time expressing himself, though he's been doing much better recently.
i decided to just let him be last night after he said he was in a bad mood and he came and kissed me goodnight before he got in bed. he seemed equally down this morning, though he did kiss me goodbye.
i keep crying this morning. i am worried about him and worried that he may be changing his mind. i'm not sure if i should just leave him alone for the rest of the day or what. i sent him a text message asking him if i should be worried about anything - he hasn't responded and i wish i hadn't sent it because i don't want to push him to talk to me; i want him to feel comfortable coming to me with how he's feeling.
i feel sick today and i don't think it's morning sickness. i'm just worried about things.
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okay, he sent a response to me asking if i should be worried about anything saying, "i am pretty gasy but it should go away by the time you get home."
so i guess he really just has a lot on his mind.
"be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."
"live fully today so you won't have to regret tomorrow that you didn't live fully yesterday."
It is probably nothing - work stressing him out - worrying about a lot of things. I have come to realize that boys PMS just has bad as women do. Michael and I have a thing - if we ask if something is wrong and it is truly nothing just in a bad mood that we just leave each other alone until we get out of our funk. It never last long. He will probably be better by tonight!
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